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Self Quiz |
A
group starts with two people. And two individuals can find themselves embroiled
in many of the same fundamental destructive group dynamics that large organizations
fall prey to.
Are
you "UNDER THE INFLUENCE" of
a destructive group or belief system?
Find
out with this
SELF
QUIZ:
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1. Does
your group discourage doubts, criticism or ideas that differ from
their belief system? |
Yes____No___ |
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2. Do
you tend to rationalize whatever the group does even when it goes
against your sense of right and wrong? |
Yes____No___ |
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3. Do
you often feel exhausted from lengthy group activities, meetings and
projects? |
Yes____No___ |
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4. Does
your group have its own unique words, cliches, slogans, chants, prayers
and doctrinal phrases that reinforce the group viewpoint? |
Yes____No___ |
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5. Are
doubts viewed as a lack of faith, dedication, commitment or disloyalty? |
Yes____No___ |
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6. Have
"your thoughts" become "the enemy?" |
Yes____No___ |
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7. Do
you often find yourself doing more and more things in the group or
because of group peer pressure that you would not have done on your
own? |
Yes____No___ |
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8. Does
your group publicly humiliate or criticize members? |
Yes____No___ |
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9. Does
your group have a system of punishments and rewards for behavior? |
Yes____No___ |
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10. Group
paranoia: Does your group obsessively think other groups or people
with different beliefs are out to get them? |
Yes____No___ |
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11. Does
the prospect of leaving your group seem scary, difficult? |
Yes____No___ |
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12. Do
you feel the need to leave in secret? |
Yes____No___ |
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13. Have
you been told something bad might happen if you leave? |
Yes____No___ |
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14. Does
your group/belief system think they have/are the only or highest truth,
or have the solution for the world’s problems? |
Yes____No___ |
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15. Are
your leader’s ideas or belief system considered beyond reproach or
sacred? |
Yes____No___ |
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16. Do
you follow a particular individual or belief system that requires
unquestioning obedience and loyalty? |
Yes____No___ |
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17. Do
members of your group feel specially chosen, superior, exclusive,
elite? |
Yes____No___ |
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18. Do
you feel the need to save or convert others to your belief system
or ideology? |
Yes____No___ |
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19. Is
your group secretive to outsiders about its inner workings, teachings,
activities or beliefs? |
Yes____No___ |
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20. Does
your group equate purity and goodness to being in your group, and
impurity or evil to those outside your group? |
Yes____No___ |
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21. Do
you place your group’s mission or agenda above your own goals and
ideals? Do group interests come before your own interest |
Yes____No___ |
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22. Do
you find yourself thinking in a we-they, us-versus-them mind set? |
Yes____No___ |
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23. Does
your group/system have a clear outside enemy? |
Yes____No___ |
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24. Do
you see less and less of your family and friends who do not belong
to your group or who do not subscribe to your group’s belief system? |
Yes____No___ |
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25. Does
your group use frequent public testimonials, confessions, or sharings
that reinforce the group’s mission or agenda? |
Yes____No___ |
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26. Is
communication within, into and out of your group controlled or censored
in any manner? |
Yes____No___ |
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27. Does
your group criticize, shun, abandon or demean individuals who leave
the group? |
Yes____No___ |
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28. Do
members seek approval or get permission from group leader(s) for personal
life choices? |
Yes____No___ |
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29. Do
you feel pressured to attend meetings, events, lectures, seminars?
And do you feel guilty if you don’t attend? |
Yes____No___ |
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30. Do
you feel pressured to give a portion of your income to the group,
or spend money on courses, books or special projects? |
Yes____No___ |
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31. Are
the group’s financial needs more important than your own economic
well-being? |
Yes____No___ |
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32. Does
your group discriminate against anyone regarding race, gender, belief,
or sexual orientation? |
Yes____No___ |
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33. Does
your group have a totalitarian structure: a strict, top-down centralized
control? |
Yes____No___ |
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34. Do you
wonder if you have been in a destructive group? |
Yes____No___ |
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35. Do you have
difficulty forming new friendships and intimate relationships? |
Yes____No___ |
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36. Do you have
low self-esteem, poor self-image or loss of identity? |
Yes____No___ |
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37. Do you have
difficulty making simple decisions and choices? |
Yes____No___ |
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38. Do you often
feel depressed, anxious and nervous? |
Yes____No___ |
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39. Do you feel
isolated, lonely, guilty, cynical? |
Yes____No___ |
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40. Do you feel
like you are just now growing up, becoming a mature adult? |
Yes____No___ |
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41. Do you have
short-term memory difficulties? |
Yes____No___ |
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42. Do you feel
you have nothing to believe in? |
Yes____No___ |
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43. Do you often
feel anger and rage towards the group? |
Yes____No___ |
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44. Do you have
nightmares or unpleasant dreams? |
Yes____No___ |
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45. Do you find
it difficult or impossible to stop mental or other group ritualistic
practices? |
Yes____No___ |
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This
quiz has no scientifically predetermined number of "yes" answers to indicate
a distructive group. However, answering "yes" to any of the above questions
means you may need to examine your group and its influence in your life in those
areas.
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